Today Eva and I went to Mom's Morning Out. I was in a total daze the entire time. I know the presenter was telling us something about what to do if your child gets lost, but truly all I got out of it was: 1. call 911 before you start looking for the child; 2. don't contaminate the scene by calling
your friends and family over to look for the child; 3. I'm to bring snacks on April 7th.
The whole morning was such a strange experience. People talked to me and I answered (half intelligently - I think), but it was like I was floating outside my body.
O.K., so question to my fellow adopters. I didn't take Jie-Jie with me today to the group because I didn't feel right about leaving him alone in a room full of strangers - even if they are fun strangers. He stayed home with Baba. Think I'm being too overprotective? Think I should try him and see how he does before making that decision? He's doing so well adjusting that I sometimes forget that he hasn't even been with us for 3 weeks yet. Also, to update my last post: As we lay awake in bed the night before last, I finally remembered to ask Jean-Pierre for details of Jie-Jie's international flight. Everything was the same as Eva except that Jie-Jie cried and screamed before he fell asleep. Once Jean-Pierre said that, I vaguely remember getting up at one point to try and help settle Jie-Jie. I was promptly sent back to my seat and told that 'he' (Jean-Pierre) was handling it. I think I suggested that he might want to stand up and walk a bit just before I fell back into my stupor. Jean-Pierre says that he did that and Jie-Jie fell asleep right away. He slept through the rest of the flight until Jean-Pierre woke him up for breakfast.
After breakfast he watched cartoons until we landed. BTW, Jean-Pierre watched 3 or 4 movies during the flight and still got off the plane as fresh as a daisy (Hate that!). Yes, and he also gets up in the morning all happy - singing, teasing the kids, etc - even though he is totally jetlagged (Double hate that!).
7 comments:
You poor thing! I'll tell you what....I'll come by NEXT week, when you finally feel like a human again. I do NOT envy you your fatigue!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!
Hey Dawn,
Hope you have a few restful nights in a row to help get you out of your stupor. Looks and sounds like Eva and Jie-Jie are having a great time together. Glad to hear that.
I know I'm not a fellow adopter but I don't think you're being over protective. If I remember from what you told us about Eva it's important for the kids to attach to you and feel secure before you take that step. Anyway, I think you made the right choice for whatever my opinion's worth.
Take care, get some sleep and have fun.
Shelley
p.s. I know how you feel about J.P. Peg's one of those morning people too!
p.s.2 Just for the record we hate being so far away. We miss you guys and would love to meet Sam.
Dawn,
I would bring him with you and let him drive whether it is something he wants to do or not...you will know quickly I would think..My guess is he would have lots fun.
The fog will clear shortly...hang in there..I know it is tough.
Karen
Welcome Home!!!!
WOW! Such a major moment! SLEEP SLEEP SLEEP! So wonderful that Eva and Sam BOTH slept through the night! Bring on the sleep!
Trust your gut feeling Dawn regarding the playgroup. Perhaps in the next few weeks, when he's even more settled (although he seems to have settled so amazingly well) you could take him with you. Maybe having Eva there with him will also be a comfort (to you both!!!!! :))
Cheers to your amazing sleep news, and to your two little cuties at the sink! I LOVE the photos!
Good night!!!!!
Jen
Look likes things are going pretty well for you guys.
I don't think you are being over protective at all. It is important that they totally feel secure, and it is nice for Eva to have her one on one time with her mom!
I was also happy to hear that the flight went well with the kiddies. You must be so happy to be back into your thingd. Like they say...Home sweet Home.
Give me a call when you are up to it.
Teri
Sorry about the errors.
Did not check before sending
A very happy new year to you all!!
So glad to hear that the adjustment is going smoothly. Can't wait to meet Sam!
Sonya
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